I'm sort of in the DC area. It only takes 20-30 minutes to get to Northwest (not during rush hour). Where are you? VA or MD? If you are in MD, I know a fantastic shop not too far from us. It's been around for a long time and in all of the places we've lived, it has always been my favorite Pagan shop! (Did I mention we just moved back to MD since moving away 10 years ago???)
13 Magickal Moons in Historic Occoquan is my favorite shop. Great atmospere and great merchandise. The owner, Samantha, is a riot. http://13magickalmoons.com/
I'd say so, relatively speaking of course. 13 Magickal Moons has a tea night every Wednesday night and there is always an amazing turnout. Also, and I don't remember the names so I'm sorry for that, there are a couple of good shops with "people meeting" type things in Oldtown, Alexandria if you are wanting to expand your circle of friends.
I live in PWC as as well. Used to go to 13 Magickal Moons, it's great. Life got too busy, so I just pop in for needed items every few months or so now.