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My cat Tiger passed away very recently, due to unforseen circumstances...I miss him terribly as he was my 'Baby' for over 8 years..He used to follow me to the shop and he would wait for me to get home from work...Tiger would be forever opening the cupboard door in the kitchen..Now, Im finding this door ajar, every day since he died..Im sure it is him!!! How can I make contact with him, just so I know that he is ok in the Spirit World and that I will ALWAYS have him in my daily thoughts???.

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Ok, I will try those things you have mentioned..I have not done any cleansing in my flat yet..I wanted to be sure of what I was doing beforehand..I was scared that if anything was there, it might come out..and then I wouldnt be able to remove it.

You talk about 'openness'..What does this mean exactly?? I understand the basic meaning of the word, but not regarding spirits, etc...How will I know if it is a good spirit or not?? When my spirit visited, It only happened at work and not at home..Now, I can 'sense' it here in my home..but its not often and there are no messages or words related to me, like before... In a way, I am glad about this, as I found it to be very confusing...because my 'intuition' could not separate the difference between reality or spirit..and when I 'thought' I was right and 'sure', only 75% was in fact correct..So, I would be busy 'trying; to work out the other 25%...And you cant exactly talk to 'anybody' about this experience. I did at work and I wasnt believed at first... they thought Id gone mad..but now they do - apart from when I got it 'wrong'..

As for invoking, I hope that I am not doing this..When I can feel this entity, the air around me feels really cold and the hairs on my arms stands out and I get goosepimples...Its almost like a depressive feeling..like there is a dark blanket surrounding me, covering me, smothering me..I have spoken out loud in anger by saying things like, ,You will not beat me, for I am stronger than you think' and 'this is my life, my house and you cannot have it'..and, ' You need to leave me alone', etc..This is only naivity on my behalf.I didnt know what I was doing..I just wanted it to go away, Id had enough, so to speak..

I am afraid to try to banish them, even if I did know how.. For, I dont think that my will is strong enough for this kind of thing. What happens if it goes wrong and I am left with 'more' problems than when I first started with..Ill leave that one for the professionals, lol..So, How did you 'stop' being so 'open' and what did you do to rid yourself of these 'bad' spirits?? And what kind of 'things' have you experienced with these and how did you 'put it right'??? Now, I think about it...they were trying to 'trick' me into believing what I 'thought' was right..Why does this happen?? For what purpose?? How can I shield 'chakras' ? Do you mean 'protect' them..Im sure if I could do that, I would begin to physically feel a whole lot better.. It would be a cheaper way than accupuncture that I cannot afford..That would be so Great, im sure!!

No, ive not worked with crystals..Ive read that they have certain properties within them, for protection, healing, invoking luck and love, etc..and they can be used to work on the altar side..

The only things that I know about are the ones Ive mentioned on my page, oh, and the experiences felt with this spirit..Its all a learning curve for me at the moment...only then I will begin..
I've lost several pets over the last two years, 1 dog and 2 cats, as soon as they have had a chance to recover from the transition they have all come back to me. Some take longer than others, my dog for instance took 2 months before she came back around (and still after two years stops for a visit) my tom cat (and familiar) was back within 48hr sleeping next to my pillow at night. I have found personally, that the easiest was to make contact is whenever you think you sense him around you talk to him, just like you did when he was physically around. Tell him about your day, if thats what you usually did, have a seat in your favorite chair...whatever you did before he died. The routine will attract him back to you.

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Hi..I have spoken to him indirectly, even though I thought I felt him around me, but I wasnt sure..So, I chatted to him in the hope that he could hear me..I told him that I was sorry and that I missed him and I that I would always love him...He used to paw me gently on my face, because he wanted to come under the covers with me - like he used to..I did feel that one day and so I chatted to him like I always did and I let him lie down with me...but I must admit, it did make me feel strange, because my initial thoughts were, Have I just imagined it?? but I did it anyway because it 'felt' right at that time..even to the point of, me hearing him scratching at the door to let me know that he wanted to come in...

I will carry on doing this..

Thanks for that

Katrana

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Anytime Katrana. I know how you feel with the initial thoughts you had. We're taught from early ages if you cant see something, touch it, feel it physically, then its not real. Just because you cannot feel (physcially solid) or perhaps see a spirit doesnt mean that they arent there. I had a ferret familiar years ago that died, and even 3 years later people visiting my apartment (I moved to another state a couple years after he died) commented on the ferret running down the hallway of the apartment...when everyone else was locked in their cages. When you get a new pet, there wil be an adjustment period for both animals dead and alive *smiles* my Tom still tries to rule the roost around here sometimes, but after seven months of having a new kitten he is finally letting her sleep at the head of my bed in his spot...she always avoided that area at bed time until recently.

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Well, thats a relief!! If I do decide to move, at least he can come with me...Did you see the ferret too?? I have thought about getting another pet but for various reasons, Ive decided against it..Ive enough with what I have now, a cat and a dog..

Its nice to know that both the cats communicate together..And that they still have a 'place' in both worlds..Fascinating!! Do you think his mother, Poppy can talk with Tiger, or not?? As, they were fairly close, she used to still try to clean him..even though he did protest sometimes - he loved it really!! And he was 8 years old...

It feels strange, because I miss the physical side of Tigers affections too..and that is what I miss the most..and so, that makes it even harder to deal with.. Will someone else be giving him his much needed fusses and stuff?? And he prefers plenty of fish..oh, and my home-made lasagne..He Loved that..Ive made some..I will have to leave him some out..I found it really hard to eat at first, but now I know he can have some, it doesnt seem so bad, after all....

In the years that I have spent upon this plane, I have never ever felt so much deep rooted emotions( and I thought id felt everything)...I can feel like. 'an unspoken' atmosphere - in my flat..An unexplainable presence..Two in fact One good and very light and airy, like a protector, angel etc but the other feels like 'something' watching from the 'balcony'..like a black fog, though I cannot see it, I 'know' its there..My hairs on my arms goose up and it feels SO cold...Ive worked out that it is now, I feel, mainly in the bedroom..Ironically, that is where Tigers incident occurred..but Its not because of that, why? I am feeling it..It makes me feel very nervous!!! Ive 'seen' this in my dog Ellies eyes?? The one whos had to go and who has now left..What bothers me is that it may transfer to my now dog..Will cleansing be enough AND an evil protector/type of charm, etc?? I dont want to be re-living the similar situation again..as you can well imagine..Or is it the negative energy 'holding' itself there??? I can feel it in the room, watching me..but the feelings different..its more at a distance, not close...the hallways narrow and the vibes strong in there too...So, I guess, its the kitchen and the room - I get to live in, lol..until I find some solutions/ideas..

Do you (once again) have any suggestions?? I guess, its more scary as I do not know what level it is at?? How or Why it is here? What is its purpose? And Why has it chosen me? Im relying on the good spirit, providing it doesnt play games with me?? For that is all I can do, for now....

You could always send me the bill at the end of the year and I will reimburse you..Do you like good food, lol? A very interesting book?? A train ticket..Sorry, I just couldnt resist..You are better than my local library....

Many Thanks
Katrana

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Katrana,
Okay gonna try and answer these questions, sorry if I miss any, feel free to message me in private to if you want.
I have seen the ferret (he was my first familiar) usually its out of the corner of my eye which is how I see most spirits. Unfortunately he finally crossed on a few years back I honestly think he returned to me in the form of another ferret I have now, as she acts almost exactly like he did. LOL (I just cant get rid of them! joking of coarse!)
The dark energy you sense could be several things. It could have been attracted to you originally because of your grief and is just hanging around feeding off that energy. depending on how old your dogs is, and its health it could also be handing around because it senses another bout of grief coming (not saying at ALL that your dogs is going to die or anything, but if its old or sick the dark may be just hanging around knowing its just a matter of time)
I would do a cleansing ritual of your entire apartment. For me, I usually start in the upper most section of a house and work toward the front door in my cleansings. And depending on the path you follow, each cleansing rit is different. For me, I call on the Isis, Osiris and Anubis to assist me, and go through each room of the house with Sage and blessed water, I pay special attention to any portals. I can give you more details in private if you need suggestions.
You can also stand up to the dark energy, tell it thats your home, its unwelcomed and to (basically) get the Hell out of your space.
I had a spirit in the first apartment I lived in (same one my ferret followed me to) that stood staring at me for the first week I lived there (had to sleep in the livingroom because most my furniture wasnt there yet) I told it to stop staring (it wasnt a mean feeling spirit tho). At one point I had a spirit slam the fridge door on me when I was getting a glass of milk (last of the milk no less!) and I went off on it (I was already in a bad mood) and threatened to cleanse the apartment if it didnt knock that crap off... suprisingly it listened!
LOL As for the billing at the end of the year *snickers* I dont need anything THEN...unless you happen to have an extra Celtic Thunder concert ticket laying around.

*side note: 12 days left before THEIR CONCERT* hmmm can ya tell Im geting excited AND have tickets? LOL Sorry, my bad *grins sweetly*

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I am so sorry for your loss. I just recently lost my dear cat Coco who I had for 14 years. She got sick and within 10 days she was gone. Meds didn't help and the dr. thinks she had tumors. I am hoping she is still around and like you, are looking for signs. How lucky you are to have Tiger with you! That is so comforting. I am hoping and waiting for a sign. I miss her terribly. I wish there was some way to contact our sweet animal babies.

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Aw Bless..14 years!! Im sorry for your loss too..The time spent together, alongside all the memories, makes it difficult to believe they have physically 'left' this world, even though they havent..It feels very different too..for it will take time adapting to this 'new' feeling, im experiencing..Like they say, try leaving food out and their favourite toys, etc..Im a 'newbie' and so am in no position to advise..But, I do wish you 'All The Best'.and I hope that you do, too, come back together and make contact...one way or another..

Brightest Blessings

Katrana

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Just a quick question, if you dont mind?? I was looking at your profile page and I listened to some of your chosen songs..I already like the artists you have put up, but I dont have any songs of theirs..It says 'add' but Im not sure if I can add them for me to listen to or 'which' details for 'which' site do I need to log in with my details?? Could you please explain Please??

Many Thanks
Katrana

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Ive managed to read some of the information that you kindly sent me...Yes, some of it is extra stuff and seeing as those im in England, it wouldnt count for me..But it did make me laugh, especially when you mentioned you'd pasted more than you shouldve!! Ill forgive you for that..

The meanings and explanations are so understandable..Even for me, lol..Ive not got to read all of it, for Ive to get ready for work now..But Ive got a half day today, so Ill be reading more, when Im home again..This is really so interesting and fascinating as its from peoples own experiences?? Plus, it goes a lot deeper in fact, as oppose to say, a tv programme about the 'Paranormal' which barely covers any information??

It makes understanding a little easier..Much more than I anticipated!!! Ive so many things that I need to learn about, but at least now, im starting on the right path of knowledge, going forward - instead of being stuck in a time zone, holding the 'pain' that I wouldve never moved from...For that alone, I am extreemly grateful..

Katrana

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