this is a cunundrum to me and I can't say that it has ever happened to me before. I set my sights on dateing this guy and I think he might be intrested in me but I can't get a hold of him it's like pulling teeth. I go out not really thinking about hooking up and this girl kinda falls in my lap and really wants to date me. I have no clue of what I should do. how do I deal with this situation without hurting anyones feelings?