makeing a person leave your home

I have person liveing with us , my hubys cousin, he really is bothersome, in everyway, I have a husband that cant do anything becousr of back injury, and I have 2 kids , this extra person in my home is doing us no good, just more stress on me , he does his best to try and undermind me,
I really need him gone , in a way that my huby wont think it's me being a b-i-t-c < you know the last letter here, some one please lend a helping spell or something,
and thank you for having me here with you all,
Brandy

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Permalink Reply by Brandy on November 15, 2008 at 10:15pm: Hi Bear
I feel for you, I know what it's like, my mother in law lived with us for a while
and she would stay up all night cooking and cleaning, rearanging everything in the house
I was going crazy with her there,driveing me to drinking , wow ,
thank you for sharing with me.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by FlamesAndIndigo on November 13, 2008 at 9:27pm: I think the magick is found in being strong enough to be straight forward and tell him what you've told us.
And then ask him to find some place else to live and give him a short time frame to comply. It's your home. He's not a benefit he's an encumbrance. You have a right and an obligation to your state of mind, your family stability, not to be victims of a parasite. (((HUGS))) Blessings.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Strega Nona on November 14, 2008 at 9:58am: Agrees completely with Flames. And what Bear said; "I hate to say it but bums are bums and I will never help anyone again." I understand where you are coming from completely. I am verrrrrry careful who I am willing to help anymore. I've been burned too many times. For those who are not users, I am here...for all the rest...they can rot for all I care.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Brandy on November 15, 2008 at 10:11pm: Hi Felicity
Everytime I bring up his cousin living here get get mad at ME , I don't know why,
I am begining to think that the meds he is on has something to do with the way he thinks,
I am trying my best to this without hard feelings; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Brenda Marie on November 14, 2008 at 9:54am: You could try to banish him. This worked for me when I needed to keep someone away from the house. If you and your husband are on the same page with wanting him out this will be easier. Your husband and you need to sit down and talk about wanting him out and agree on a deadline. Then you tell the cousin you have this long to find a new place. Changing the locks is expensive so try and be patient.

Does your husband practice witchcraft? If he does you should banish him together. I set up my altar with white candles for protection and strength. Call the corners and meditate to get in the right frame of mind. Then repeat over and over (until you feel satisfied): I banish you (cousin's name) from my home. I banish you from living with me, from constantly being around my family. You can not enter my home. You are not welcome here. I banish you.

Belief that it will work helps. : - ); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by m00nangel on November 14, 2008 at 10:35am: We had that problem with family members always coming and camping out and staying longer than we had agreed on.Also wanting money that we really couldnt afford to give,but did.Seems like every time we did, we went in debt.It hurt our family. Finally my husband said, you move one more person in our house,Im leaving.I woke up to the painful truth, you cant help everyone.Sometimes in helping them you have to let them fall. you really should talk to your husband, tell the cousin he has a few days to find somewhere else to go and stick to it.Dont move anyone else in.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by CrochetedPanther on November 14, 2008 at 11:53am: Think of him and place your broom upside down near the door. He'll find a reason to leave soon enough.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Brandy on November 15, 2008 at 10:06pm: hi panther
thank you, and the broom will be put upside down at the front door in the next 20 min.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Kelly on November 14, 2008 at 12:00pm: Housemongers...thats what I call those people...I need a place for tonight then there for what seems like a lifetime...Good Luck; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Lea on November 14, 2008 at 12:42pm: Flames is right, it's your home as well, and you have a right to that space. Your magic is your strength in this situation. Go for it, tactfully, peacefully but forcefully if necessary. Good Luck, I'll be thinking of you and maybe that will add some strength as well. Blessings of the Day ~!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Monica on November 14, 2008 at 12:58pm: I'd look in to your laws of your county/state about Evicting(sp??) him. How long has he been there? Is your home his mailing address and such? You might have to give him a 2 week or a months eviction notice before just "throwing him out". Also like another said.. talk to him and talk to your hubby. You hubby should understand especially if the cousin is undermining you.. tell him that..; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Dragon Ritual Drummers on November 14, 2008 at 1:07pm: Hi there, we just friended you, send a message to us and we will share something to aid in the problem; ▶ Reply to This