my grandpa

I keep seeing my grandpa in various places. He died on my birthday in 1984. His face was in my dresser mirror and he has opened a curtain and looked in on me. I wasn't close to him at all and can barely remember anything about him except his face. My sister tells me i was molested by him when i was a little girrl and thats why i don't remember him. Anyone have any input on why he would be trying to contact me? or How i can find out what he wants? I have attached a picture of him and my grandma.

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Permalink Reply by Ruthanne on May 25, 2009 at 12:26pm: I'm not good at things like this, but maybe he wants to apologize?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Barbara Wimmer <c on May 25, 2009 at 12:44pm: I had thought about that but how do i know if that's what he wants. Or has he come back to haunt me like i was told he did when i was a child?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Ruthanne on May 25, 2009 at 1:13pm: I don't believe that once a soul passes it feels any kind of negativity. And I agree with what merrick says about asking him what's up. :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by merrick on May 25, 2009 at 12:59pm: I think it is to remind you that you need to overcome this issue, or at least find out the truth. Do you trust the accusation? If so, just ask him what he wants the next time he appears to you, but remember to be patient. Meditate on your questions and let the Goddess help you resolve this.

I hope this helps!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Barbara Wimmer <c on May 25, 2009 at 5:22pm: I think finding out the truth would help me. I know there are several females in my family that said he did it to them as well. Does it make a difference that he was also a baptist preacher? i will try your suggestion that may be my best approach. Thank you both.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Ruthanne on May 25, 2009 at 5:45pm: You're welcome :)

*Does it make a difference that he was also a baptist preacher?*
No...? Should it?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Barbara Wimmer <c on May 25, 2009 at 6:14pm: I didnt know if it would have anything to do with his religion. I've had people tell me that it could be part of it. I don't know why it would though.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Ruthanne on May 25, 2009 at 6:18pm: Nah. I think once a soul passes, they are not anything like they were here. All the negativity is gone. I don't think "religion" is the same on the other side as it is here. Just my opinion. :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Barbara Wimmer <c on May 25, 2009 at 6:22pm: That's my opinion to. I haven't really heard anyone say it though. I really do appreciate your advice.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Dale on May 25, 2009 at 7:54pm: First forgive him for what ever he did even if you dont remember what it was. Then ask him what he waunts from you. Lead him in the rite direction and he will go. BB; ▶ Reply to This