Pagan Women with non Pagan Men

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Permalink Reply by Arcane the WhiteRaven on March 26, 2009 at 12:51am

I really cant understand that.

he thinks all religions and spiritualities are a waste of time. thus that includes what you do, thus he thinks what you do is a waste of time (and or idiotic).

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Permalink Reply by Ruby Tuesday on March 26, 2009 at 1:16am

I should clarify that he grew up in a Catholic household. lol Religion's been shoved down his throat since birth, so I can understand his line of thinking. However, I think what's going on with him recently is that I'm putting a (sane) human face onto spirituality, and I believe that it's making it less of a wasteful concept to him. For example, at the beginning of the relationship, he had a very *shrug* attitude towards my path, but as time went on, he began to ask more and more questions, and he's even begun to randomly volunteer information that he's picked up from me as the situation calls for it. I don't think he'll ever be a Pagan, but I think he's developing a new respect for other spiritual paths through his relationship with me.

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Permalink Reply by Norm Vogel on March 26, 2009 at 12:01am

One (possible) reason that Pagan women can't find Pagan men is that soooo many events, rituals, classes, etc. are "for women only". You're forgetting about the guys!

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Permalink Reply by Noli on March 26, 2009 at 12:09am

where I live there aren't many pagans in the first place, most of them aren't men. In fact, i HAVE met pagan women here but not one pagan man

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Permalink Reply by hawk silvermoon on March 26, 2009 at 8:58am

Oh i dont no i am with a non pagan man and i think it is to keep you balanced some what in the real world, when you are at a ritual or something and you can go home and find balance and harmony in both worlds......besides there arent that many pagan men in this area that i know of and the 2 i do no are either too old or too immature

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Permalink Reply by Fantumofthewinds on March 26, 2009 at 9:08am

It could be that just maybe as we journey we dident know quite what we we're ? and then again it would depend upon how the word its self is ment? I think it takes years of study and in the mean time life gos on , and besides I think it gives us different perspectives to look at and keeps our mind open to differences. I know many who would not call themselfs that for anything at least in my neck of the wood . the word pagan has a back rap. and many will not associate themselfs with it . BB Fantumofthewinds

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Permalink Reply by Blodeuwedd on March 26, 2009 at 2:59pm

by mistake. I suppose. That's what happened to me. Now, it just keeps things interesting. :)

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Permalink Reply by Silver Tree on March 26, 2009 at 3:32pm

If anything were to happen to Mrs Tree, I would probably remarry. We were both raised Catholic. My wife has a tremendous respect for my path. If I were to remarry, a future wife would have to be pagan. How many women would be interested in a healthy middle aged man with a good job, a house and grown children?

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Permalink Reply by Smokey Sage on March 26, 2009 at 3:51pm

My husband is very open-minded about my path. He was raised in a baptist enivironment and understands that there is more out there than what the church will lead you to believe. We were married 2 months before my path to self-discovery revealed my true being to him, as well as myself. He is very supportive and is active in all our group funtions, mostly acting as a self-proclamed security guard. lol. When it comes down to it, the Beatles had it right...All you need is love...
Love n Light,
Smokey Sage

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Permalink Reply by Faelon Moonhawk on March 26, 2009 at 4:21pm

I only know a few pagans irl, all of them women.

Then again, I could care less what religion anyone is so long as they let me do my thing, it has no bearing on whether or not you love someone. I love my fiancee for who he is, what more is there?

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Permalink Reply by drowning moon on March 26, 2009 at 4:24pm

In my eyes, it's because I can't seem to find a pagan man who is single for me to hook up with. They are all taken OR gay, or both.

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