Unless someone can share a better approach. I think the following rules will help anyone to become.
1.) Choose / Change location. Plant your seed and grow! The Spirt, will flourish or stunt growth in certain environments.
2.) Seize the day, and take advantage of time.
3.) Its not where your from, its where your going.
4.) Fear NOTHING!
5.) Stand up and let your voice be heard.
6.) Send the message out to those who believe. ( you will find your friends )
7.) Reject the Mainstream.
8.) Work on your wit, think about things and your life.
9.) Find a skill and flourish in.
10.) Never fail, or give up trying.
Shouldn't have respect and mercy fell somewhere in there?