I will admit that I sometimes stay up at night and plot revenge. I very rarely live out my revenge fantasies for practical reasons . I was just wondering if anyone else has found an effective way to get past this or is it maybe therapeutic to go ahead and plot dire consequences for the people who are fully deserving of them? We are only human after all... :)It is very tempting to imagine that I can do something about stupid people who hurt others.
Oh Jackie...I have to sign off to go to work...:(
I have often had revenge fantasies myself!!!
I will comment more when I get home at midnight.
Great discussion!
I am not sure who to blame in specifics and I do have terrible luck with the police... I am never sure when to push my luck or just lay low... and plot. What happened in one incident in particular, I was hospitalized in a lockdown unti becasue someone told the emergency er people that I had tried to give myself an abortion which is quite definitely just nonsense and a vicious lie that was written on a permanent file about me. I promise I am not being paranoid this really happened. I have filed numerous complaints and yet the rumor remains because of a pett y lie. I am totally unsure of what to do altogether confused about that.
Alos, I don't mean to unload that much really, it's just that late at night when I can't sleep, stuff like that really gets to me. Sorry about oversharing. this might all be tmi.
Easy answer, I don't follow through on revenge plots because I did in my youth and it just wasn't satisfying. I felt... diminished, somehow, like I'd disappointed myself.
So I'll plot with the best of them, but for me it's just a way to blow off steam. Why put more negative out there when, after I've vented, I can just laugh at them for being a doodyhead?
I know a few doodyheads!!! I kind of feel the same way sometimes... I might not be able to laugh right now about some things . Some things I can though. I like to blow off steam. I think I will try some different outlets for my excess energy like walking as a pastime. I am in need of some new hobbies really...Nice talking with you very much.