could you keep us in your thoughts, so that we might find a path toward help?

Here's whats going on, my husband has met with a bariatric specialist, in the hopes of losing weight. We found out that with their equipment, they wouldnt be able to operate until my husband loses about 75 lbs. but if he could lose that kind of weight that easily, he wouldnt need gastric bypass surgery. our hands are tied, until he loses some weight, or we find someone with the equipment capable of handling his case. hes tried diet changes, and exercise, and still he gains weight. i control his portions, but still like i said he gains, not loses. it breaks my heart. he is up over 500lbs now, and i worry every day that i may lose him. also we found out that the one surgery they do here, would not be ideal for my husbands situation. the one that would, we would have to go someplace else, and i dont know how our insurance would cover it or not. i just want to throw my arms up and say im done with this whole mess, but i want to be there and be supportive and its hard, with my son having adhd, and now my husbands weight issue, i just dont know what to do anymore. Our family needs some healing energy please. bb

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