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I've been through a lot in my life and have a lot of people that, in my mind didn't deserve to be forgiven. 

Recently I've found myself thinking otherwise and even had the Goddess tug at my heart strings, urging me to forgive.. Forgive but not forget. We forgive to free our own minds of the negativity caused by others. At least that is what I have come to know.

Out of no where a few days ago I began to sing under the moonlight, I often sing to vent pent of feelings or whatever else I have on my mind, but something about looking at the moon made me open my heart and mind to the thought of forgiving those of my past. So I did.

I forgave a great number of people and even did a sort of spell? Prayer? To the Goddess and God and I feel free! I'm not sure how long term the feeling will be but.. Its wonderful as it lasts. I'm happy I've forgiven these people, but I wont forget the actions they've done. 

Included is the little prayer/spell/song (whatever you wish to call it or use it..or don't use it.)

(Burn a White candle if you wish)

I forgive you, (state the name/s of person/people)

For any and all hurt you may have caused my heart, soul, body, and mind. I relinquish the power you have had over me, but I will not forget what was done. 

So mote it be.

(Note: please excuse errors for I am posting this from my phone.)

Love and blessings. )O( 

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Comment by SunTiger on August 7, 2018 at 10:49pm

Your statement: "We forgive to free our own minds of the negativity caused by others" rings so true for me. Very cool that you see this in your life already.

I would only add that it's important to keep your distance from toxic people. Just as one bad apple draws gnats and therefore spoils the whole crock, so an irregular and mean person can suck joyfrom your soul (just like a dementor in the Harry Potter series!)

Comment by Chezarey Mickey on August 10, 2018 at 10:02am

Beautiful. Thank you for the spell. I have already forgiven most, but I think I will use this tomorrow during my usual rituals for added finality.

Comment by Lady Green on August 10, 2018 at 10:38am

I hope it helps you find some peace Chezarey! 

It's difficult to avoid some bad apples though. For example, there are plenty in my own family.

Comment by Chezarey Mickey on August 10, 2018 at 12:33pm

Thank you, I hope you continue experiencing your peace.

I have decided I don't owe anyone my love or adoration. I live in a different city, so it makes it easy not to speak to my father. My mother and I are best friends, though. He does make it difficult to talk to her, though.

Comment by Callie on August 11, 2018 at 4:32pm

I am really trying to find a way to forgive a sister, but she has continued to be mean, judgemental and hypocritical even after I confronted her about her actions. I have come to a peaceful settlement in my mind that she is my toxic person. Her husband and daughters know nothing of her doings, and I have no intention of telling any of them, that's just not me. She is also a judgemental Christian posing as Wiccan, but only posing to our sister-in-law. She vehemently denies to others that this is in any way her path. Her daughter saw the monetary gain in becoming a healing medium. Even though she has some gifts, this is not her path. Most of her path parallels mine. My sister pretends to support this daughter of hers, and pretends to put her on a pedestal while shrugging her shoulders behind her back AND promoting her healing medium 'business' to others that have the means. She (sister) describes me to others as bipolar and suffering from deep depression, and a pathological liar that has told so many lies that I now believe them. I can't justify forgiveness here, even though I have asked for counsel on it. My guide also noted the toxicity should be paramount in my overall decision. Thoughts? Anyone? Please? I am being pushed by what's left of my closest family members to either forgive or confront her for a final time and cut her loose. My words are like knives and when I finally lose my temper (it takes a lot) people that know me let me be, especially her. She is also self-appointed matriarch of the family since Mom passed 17 years ago.

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