(sigh)
I have been neglecting my PaganSpace for a bit here... things are just so... well... not quite good on many fronts for me and I'm not feeling secure enough to say "hey, this sucks, can you just let me know it could get better" to anyone... Instead I have been suffering in silence.
For one thing, the legal stuff is not going very well... my ex and I were negotiating through our lawyers, but he seems to be stalling that and not willing to give on anything, and so its likely going to go to a trial.
Starting next friday we have both agreed (and stated in legal documentation) that the kids will live with me for a week and then him for a week. FOR EVER. I am devestated by this, but the lawyer feels that it is likely what the court would impose on us anyway, now that I am moving into the city.
My ex still hasn't lived up to his agreement on child support. He stated in court documents that he'd pay the full amount for May and for June, plus his full portion of the daycare expenses from May going forward... and I have yet to see any of that. He's wiggled out of it by not stating WHEN payments will be made.
I have been making plans to move to the city, and out of my mother's home, and now things are in such a state of uncertainty that I can't be sure that I will be able to afford to live on my own. It does strengthen my claim for spousal support and child support garnishments though
The hot housing market in our area has suddenly cooled, just when the ex agreed to sell our house. He hasn't been home to show the place, which he has decided to sell privately, since monday and wont be there until next friday... I'm concerned that if we don't get a good price for the home it will leave me in serious debts trying to pay my legal fees, especially having to go to court on some of the issues.
I'm moving next weekend, and all I have is clothes and air matresses and small kitchen appliances. I have no furniture. Even when I moved out for university I had more than I have NOW...
But I will be going to Toronto to visit a friend in mid-July... and I will have a break from some of the stress of the current situation
For one thing, the legal stuff is not going very well... my ex and I were negotiating through our lawyers, but he seems to be stalling that and not willing to give on anything, and so its likely going to go to a trial.
Starting next friday we have both agreed (and stated in legal documentation) that the kids will live with me for a week and then him for a week. FOR EVER. I am devestated by this, but the lawyer feels that it is likely what the court would impose on us anyway, now that I am moving into the city.
My ex still hasn't lived up to his agreement on child support. He stated in court documents that he'd pay the full amount for May and for June, plus his full portion of the daycare expenses from May going forward... and I have yet to see any of that. He's wiggled out of it by not stating WHEN payments will be made.
I have been making plans to move to the city, and out of my mother's home, and now things are in such a state of uncertainty that I can't be sure that I will be able to afford to live on my own. It does strengthen my claim for spousal support and child support garnishments though
The hot housing market in our area has suddenly cooled, just when the ex agreed to sell our house. He hasn't been home to show the place, which he has decided to sell privately, since monday and wont be there until next friday... I'm concerned that if we don't get a good price for the home it will leave me in serious debts trying to pay my legal fees, especially having to go to court on some of the issues.
I'm moving next weekend, and all I have is clothes and air matresses and small kitchen appliances. I have no furniture. Even when I moved out for university I had more than I have NOW...
But I will be going to Toronto to visit a friend in mid-July... and I will have a break from some of the stress of the current situation
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Comment by d'Arqstar on June 22, 2008 at 1:14am -
Sending positive energies your way. Things WILL get better! (keep telling youself this DAILY at least!) You're moving forward, striking a new path for yourself and your children. Everything WILL work out! TRUST in that!
BB
d'Arqstar
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