I am not new to the craft, but a majority of my practice has been solitary. I live in Minnesota now, but have had the privilege of living in many other states as my father was active military and so I have had the chance to observe faith across the United States with a few good vacations in Europe.
The thing is it seems harder than is necessary to find pagan men in my area or anywhere really. Under the odd moment that I do meet one they seem to either not actually be pagan or already have a wife. I can attract all the fundamentalist Christians and agnostics out there, but a truely gifted witch seems to be deaf to my call. So I am blogging about it in a Blatant way to see if the change in tactic will make that connection.