I've been sent various screen shots of some chat messages regarding people pointing fingers at others saying they're being "psychically drained" or something like that by other particular members in chat. If you feel like you're being drained through a "chat box", then I'd suggest logging off of chat.
I am pretty annoyed by some of the stuff that's been shared with me, if it continues behind the scenes or out in the open then I will be removing people from the site. Saying things like this about other members only serves to "single-out" certain people and make others believe they are doing something wrong when in fact the only wrongdoing I'm seeing is spreading ridiculous rumors about other members.
So once again, if you feel drained, there's a simple solution --->log off of chat and the problem will instantly be eliminated.
I have been in chat a lot over the past week and the only thing that drains me is drama and trying to follow all those convos scrolling through the screen :)
Have an awesome week!