I am, used to be, extremely close with my younger brother (19). About 4 months ago I found him a girlfriend. I got them to exchange numbers almost as soon as I met her and we became close quickly. She seemed to be on the same level as I am as far as priorities and goals. We're very similar as to where we are in life. Our daughters are one month apart, we're the same age, been through similar trials and tribulations, or so I thought. I have caught this girl lying about almost everything she's ever told me. Mostly because she could never keep her stories straight. I didn't catch anything at first, as most people don't with new found relationships, but it was too late when I did start realizing.
She is his first everything and I do mean everything. I can't even confront her about anything because the one time i tried, she turned my words all around and told my bother that we were a horrible family & she didn't know if she could deal with us. Luckily, I know how to screen cap & sent my brother what I actually said. Yet, he still plays into her dramatic bullshit. I try to stay out of it. I ignore her and talk to him about things other than her but she somehow drags me right back to the middle of things. I've accepted that they will be together & everything will play out but I don't want to lose my brother because some random female has nothing better to do then stir up trouble.
What do I do?!