Reality check
It doesn’t matter how much I care or don’t care I can’t change the way other people chose to feel. At best I can behave in a manner that influences another’s mood but I can’t force a mood upon any one - others peoples moods are just that their moods. The same applies to mine. I find it sad when people hand the power of their own frame of mind to another by blaming.
When people want to feel angry they will find some thing some where to be angry about. We create a reality than matches our concepts, not the other way around.Many believe perception is molded by our experiences but fail to comprehend how experiences are molded by our perception.
When people are looking to abscond personal responsibility for their own perspective they will always seek to blame some thing that can not be changed . As long as the object of wrath is unchangeable then people will feel free to hold on to their resentment and use it to justify within the selves their ignorance. In this manner they are choosing to remain angry .
The past can not be changed , it is over however the future can be influenced by our decisions in the present. I can’t change my age, skin color or gender, I did not choose to be any of those things however I am still expected deal with all three no matter how I feel. As long as angry people insist upon assigning blame to the past and/or the unchangeable traits then they are choosing to maintain the negative perception . I will not be accepting the responsibility for that even if they chose to blame me or "my kind". Just because some one assigns me guilt doesn't mean I have to accept it. I can and will judge for myself that is why I have a brain.
I do not have to share in this negative perception – Just because some one decides to be mad at me doesn't automatically mean I MUST return the anger. I do not have to see me or others in a bad light but it sure can happen some times. Although I lean toward the arrogantly ambivalent I do have emotions from time to time.However I seek to improve me because I am the only thing I can change. The truth be known the way I can tell when a person is really looking for a solution when they begin to seek along the lines of things that can be changed. Things like attitude can be changed when we so choose via a different in perspective.
I fear the greater part of humanity is not where they can understand that life is all in our heads not in our skin.
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When people want to feel angry they will find some thing some where to be angry about. We create a reality than matches our concepts, not the other way around.Many believe perception is molded by our experiences but fail to comprehend how experiences are molded by our perception.
When people are looking to abscond personal responsibility for their own perspective they will always seek to blame some thing that can not be changed . As long as the object of wrath is unchangeable then people will feel free to hold on to their resentment and use it to justify within the selves their ignorance. In this manner they are choosing to remain angry .
The past can not be changed , it is over however the future can be influenced by our decisions in the present. I can’t change my age, skin color or gender, I did not choose to be any of those things however I am still expected deal with all three no matter how I feel. As long as angry people insist upon assigning blame to the past and/or the unchangeable traits then they are choosing to maintain the negative perception . I will not be accepting the responsibility for that even if they chose to blame me or "my kind". Just because some one assigns me guilt doesn't mean I have to accept it. I can and will judge for myself that is why I have a brain.
I do not have to share in this negative perception – Just because some one decides to be mad at me doesn't automatically mean I MUST return the anger. I do not have to see me or others in a bad light but it sure can happen some times. Although I lean toward the arrogantly ambivalent I do have emotions from time to time.However I seek to improve me because I am the only thing I can change. The truth be known the way I can tell when a person is really looking for a solution when they begin to seek along the lines of things that can be changed. Things like attitude can be changed when we so choose via a different in perspective.
I fear the greater part of humanity is not where they can understand that life is all in our heads not in our skin.
Tags: attitude, boundaries, emotional, emotional health and wellbeing, feelings, future, past, perception, resentments, responsibility
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