What to Say

  OMG What to say is an under statement! I can believe it has been almost 3 yrs sense I last posted anything. My friends must think I deserted them or fell of the face of Earth I am truly sorry. I have popped in a couple of time but did not post or let you know I was still kicking around.

   Things were very hectic in my life the past few years to say the least. I am hoping things are starting to settle down some. I care for my extended family and at least 1/2 have issues medically, Both my parents have been very ill and we lost my Mom the day after Thanksgiving,2011 so we are still coping with that. My youngest moved out and in a couple of times, he  just moved back Sat.with his girlfriend who has been with for over 4 yrs now, My oldest, who is totally deaf and blind in one eye still lives at home, my middle brother,wife and daughter (all have heath issues), my Dad (also ill) and then my youngest brother,his wife, and 2 toddlers ( all 4 of them healthy adults just not pulling their weight) and of coarse my rock and anchor my hubby of almost 39yrs.

   We also have 4 dogs 3 are elders all over 15 yrs old then a 5 yr old. All were rescue dogs when we got them.

   My husband is the only one working. My youngest helps me a lot on projects so his does't have to sense he helps tend 2 huge gardens we share with a neighbor and one in the back yard also. So he has little time for anything else. My youngest brother and wive are just plain lazy they do little to help around here and then only if Dad tells them to do something. Neither work and barely tend to their kids right. When Dad passes they will have to get a job to help or move out. Because of the babies my Dad will not make them. So you see, it I who runs around making sure bills get paid,groceries gotten,and anything else that is needed done and mostly does the cooking. Now that my youngest is back he helps with the cooking also. And that is just the tip of the iceburg! 

  I am just starting to give myself free time, but it is hard to find at times LOL so I will try not to be so long in posting again. Thanks for understanding and if any does not I do not know what to tell you.

   Blessings to all my Friends