you've lent me money, i've done the same.
you've covered me when i was short, i've done the same.
you've helped me put food in the house, ive done the same.
you've let me live with you on several occasions rent free, nope that was just me
you made sure i got where i needed to go, nope that was just me.
you helped me get a job, nope that was just me.
you've taken care of my kid so i could get some me time/pay bills, nope again that was just me.
lets see here who really has done more before you attempt to belittle me again shall we?