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It doesn't sound as if you were a bad person. You are reflecting through what happened so it is more likely that you are a good person. Do you know how to get in touch with her to talk about it again? Or can you ask a mutual friend on what she thinks? It sounds like you like her but maybe she is just upset about something else at the moment. Maybe she misunderstood something.
My take on the situation is you can meet some women who are there to teach and to have listened to as you said 'And then she's like it's hard to have a conversation with me, all that because I'm a know it all, and I was like I'm not trying to be, just saying things I believe?'
She is on a very different journey to you and you came into contact with a more evolved soul and can be especially difficult to deal with because she sees everything before it comes out of your mouth and sometimes they can be overwhelmed by what they know so it comes across as rude and mean-spirited. It wasn't anything you did she recognised you as a kindred spirit only she had things to teach you which unfortunately you thought was a conversation of equals which it wasn't.
If there is a lesson to learn sometimes it's better to listen, than to share what you know or believe.
Don't worry about it, we are all different.
I think this girl was drawn to you for some reason, but when she got to know you a little it caused a strong reaction within her. A reaction she had not expected and was unprepared for. Because of this she became confused, then scared, then angry. I think her behaviour towards you is the result of her own inner turmoil at how you presented yourself.
When men meet women they like, they subconcisly look for ways to impress them. They think it makes them appear wise, cleaver etc. when what they actually look like is a big head or a burbling idiot. You might have come across to her in that way.
Is this real or a dream?
Was she stoned?
Were you both stoned?
Any woman who sees a complete stranger in a - private pool? Public pool? Hotel pool? - and goes to him and starts snogging him has problems. I wouldn't give any credence to her claims.
I agree with you.
OP, you probably shouldn't get emotionally invested in a complete stranger; don't allow others to put the burden of their emotional baggage on you; it's not your problem; if you have to work that hard, it isn't a fit.
It sounds like she might have borderline personality disorder, bro. I could be wrong.
that seems like an interesting interaction, If there is anything that I've learnt in life is that you can't really know people from just talking to them once, twice or even online. First interactions make it hard to read a person. You have to know them on a day by day personal interaction sort of way. We are all so different on a daily basis, she could have simply been in a funky mood and just wanted to talk to a stranger and have a social experiment. Either way, you shouldn't take it personally, be confident in who you are and what you want. Maybe you should focus more on why you felt sad.
Thank you all for your responses
Sorry I didn't respond sooner, work fifty hours a week, thank you all <3
Those pesky entities messing in peoples life **Rolling My Eyes**
I think you know the answer to that but ive been there, once in a while, its good to share our experience to reassure our ego or deep self. Your not bad person, you simply didn't get along with this person. You tried your best and now its ''off''. take it as an experience. Its all it is....:)
I feel like you're being WAY to hard on yourself. People can be like that just because whatever you're doing doesn't line up with how they like. I have had several people accuse me of being completely evil only because they couldn't either A: read my energy or B: see my aura. Now I have, and probably always will,been known to sub-consciously hide both of those things. With one of these folks I offered to let them try again and I would see if I could drop it, but they refused because they claimed I'd just make them see what I wanted. So yeah don't beat yourself up, if anything the universe is teaching you that some people are just judgmental and you don't have to let that be your problem.